DR. WALLACE: Conflicting Parenting Styles Cause Family Tension

October 9, 2025 - 06:36

In many households, differing parenting styles can lead to confusion and tension among family members. A young individual recently expressed frustration over their parents' contrasting approaches to decision-making, especially regarding social activities. The child often finds themselves caught in the middle when requesting permission to hang out with friends or attend movies.

One parent tends to be more lenient, encouraging social interactions and allowing for greater freedom, while the other is more cautious and protective, emphasizing safety and responsibility. This dichotomy can create an uncomfortable environment, leaving the child uncertain about their own autonomy and the expectations placed upon them.

As children navigate their teenage years, they seek independence and the ability to make choices. However, when parents disagree on what is appropriate, it can lead to feelings of frustration and resentment. Open communication between parents, along with a unified approach to parenting, could help mitigate these conflicts and create a more harmonious family dynamic.