“Don’t be a boss to your child”: The parenting mistake Sadhguru warns parents about

May 28, 2026 - 13:23

In a recent YouTube video, spiritual leader Sadhguru reflected on a parenting mistake he believes quietly damages many children: turning love into pressure. He argues that a particular kind of parenting often begins with genuine care but ends in constant demands. According to Sadhguru, many parents fall into the trap of acting like a boss rather than a guide. They set rigid rules, push for high performance in school, and measure their child's worth by achievements. This approach, he warns, slowly erodes the child's natural curiosity and sense of self.

Sadhguru suggests that the problem starts when parents treat their children as projects to be managed. Instead of observing what the child is drawn to, they impose their own ambitions. He advises parents to step back and create space for the child to explore. The key, he says, is to offer support without control. A child needs a loving presence, not a manager. By letting go of the need to direct every move, parents can build trust and allow their children to grow into their own unique selves.